Fight on Train this morning.....?

I am so embarrassed. This morning my husband and I got on the C train (crowded). I sat while he stood. He must have accidently bumped this females hand while she was holding the pole because she started huffing and puffing; smacking her teeth and mumbling words under her breath. I didn't say anything because I thought the whole thing was stupid (it was an accident). Well.....right when me and my husband were getting off the train.....she called me a *****. Before you knew it I had started choking and beating the crap out of her.





My husband has never seen me fight before. I am so ashamed. I wanted to always be a lady in his eyes but this morning I showed him a side he has never seen before. He didn't say anything about the fight after we got off the train.





So my question is: Do you think my husband is upset with me because I had behaved far from what you would call a lady or do you think it was nothing (something he isn't thinking about).

Fight on Train this morning.....?
You go girl. People need to learn to keep their mouths shut.





Don't be ashamed. Your husband will still love you. It will depend on his background and beliefs as to if he will be upset with you. You didn't behave like a lady but you also were not in a lady like situation. If it was a one time thing where you just blew up, don't worry about it. However, if you feel like you have a lot of supressed anger, talk to your husband about it and get help.


Really, don't worry about it. A good marriage can easily weather you kicking someone's butt.
Reply:You're Husband probably did not no how to react, to your scuffle at the moment. If it bothered him he would have probably said something to you right then. Just talk to him about it and how he felt. Communication is key , let him know that it was spontainious and that it is not commonplace for you to fight with other women. Show him that you are lady, but can kick some A** when the time comes.
Reply:How am I supposed to know ? ask him...
Reply:ask him, not us








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Reply:I think your husband may be thinking about it but we all have our breaking point. You can always talk to him and bring it up as a light conversation like "Wow can believe me this morning, it seems like a crazy dream, I guess I had no idea how stressed I have been feeling lately"
Reply:You are a 10.
Reply:Wow, I definately think you overreated big time on that one. I think your husband was probably pretty embarrassed by the whole thing. I would just talk to him when you get home tonight and explain why you reacted the way you did. And if you feel horrible about the whole thing, make sure you apologize to him for it. Usually that's all it takes. Good luck!
Reply:You're right the whole matter was very stupid. You would have been a bigger person by turning your back on her, and walking away. Now had SHE touched YOU, then you had the perfect right to beat the $hit out of her...and walk away proud!


One is not supposed to START something....But rather FINISH it.
Reply:Don't worry.he must be proud of you.


you are a well balanced lady
Reply:He probably thought it was kind of hot to see you get all Rambo on her a**.
Reply:He may not be thinking about it. If he is, he is probably going to wait until a better time to talk to you about it. Next time just let it go. Words may bother us but they can't hurt you physically. What if this woman tries to press charges. There are plenty of people who saw the fight. You should turn the other cheek. If you would've just walked away, she would've been left there looking stupid.
Reply:so do grown up people also fight to? dam i cant wait to be old!
Reply:HAHAHAH girl you was on it, its ok things happen.
Reply:The important information you left out would be his reaction to this, how did he act after the event, what did he say when you got home?





Sometimes you just gotta beat a b*tch azz, thats just the way it is, he should certainly understand. ☼
Reply:He didn't say anything because it was an unexpected incident that caught him by surprise. He probably didn't know what to say but might later.





Anyway, if it's just this one incident I bet it goes down as a charming story about you. If he's unsure about it then you have to decide if you are going to tell him "about that side of you" or if you want to just reassure him that it was an isolated incident. In the long run honesty is best.
Reply:Human nature, its happens.. and well to tell the truth, its kinda attractive for such a proper woman to soil her oats now and again.
Reply:can`t we all just get along ...
Reply:Eh, let it go. He probably was ruiting you on!
Reply:I don't believe you should be hiding part of your personality from your husband. That being said, perhaps you should look into anger management help.
Reply:I don't think he was ashamed. He might have been taken aback becuse he hasn't seen that side of you before. I would be proud of you.
Reply:He was probrably just a little shocked at that from you. Or maybe he was thinking some clothes are going to get ripped? Seriously, a lady calls you a name and you assualt her physically? That is what your man was most likely thinking. I doubt this happened as you said it did, because if it did you should have been arrested for assualt and battery.





You need some anger management courses dear if that is all it takes to set you off.
Reply:if my wife did that, i would worship her every morning, every afternoon, and every night.
Reply:I wouldn't worry about it....but I hope you smacked her hard!
Reply:I think you are lucky you didn't get arrested.
Reply:Hes probably proud of you.
Reply:i could see him being embarrassed for you not being lady like if this was the 19th century... talk to him about it. I'm sure this will become a joke when you reminisce about it...
Reply:yes
Reply:He probably won't say anything because you stood up for yourself. NICE JOB!!!!!!!! Don't worry about it. You did good!
Reply:"Well.....right when me and my husband were getting off the train.....she called me a *****. Before you knew it I had started choking and beating the crap out of her. "





Well that was pretty stupid of you. Have you considered anger management classes?





Geeze, if you start choking someone for something as stupid as calling you a name, I'm surprised you haven't been arrested yet.





If I were him, I'd probably be wondering "What the hell did she overreact like that for?!?"
Reply:id say talk to him about it. he loves you, obviously you are married and has to love you no matter what. tell him how you feel about it and im sure he will understand.
Reply:Lady, (and I say that loosely) - NEVER, EVER fight 'for' your husband. You should have let him handle it, however he thought best. You demeaned him by your actions, and now he feels less of a man.